Tannen, Deborah That's not what I meant! : how conversational style makes or breaks your relations with others / Deborah Tannen. - New York : Ballantine Books, 1986. - 214 pages ; 21 centimeter. Includes index. ISBN: 0345379721 Subjects--Topical Terms: Conversation. Dewey Class. No.: FOR 808.56 T15t 1986